The ultimate guide to planning an elopement

What is an elopement?

Elopement typically refers to a secretive or sudden marriage conducted without the knowledge of one's family or friends. It often involves a couple running away to get married, usually to avoid objections or complications.  Elopements can be spontaneous and romantic, or carefully planned affairs, depending on the couple's preferences.

Ultimate guide in planning an elopement by Fiona Garrivan

Why do people elope?

Some couples elope because they want a stress-free wedding planning!!
It can also be a way for couples to prioritise their commitment to each other over societal or family expectations. It's a decision often driven by love, a desire for independence, or the need for autonomy in starting their life together.

What can an elopement look like?

Elopements can take many forms depending on the preferences and circumstances of the couple involved. Some elopements are simple and intimate, involving just the couple exchanging vows in a private ceremony, perhaps in a scenic location like a beach, forest, or mountain top. Others may opt for a more elaborate elopement, with a small group of close friends or family members present to witness the ceremony. Elopements can also involve travelling to a destination wedding location, whether it's a nearby city or a far-flung exotic locale. The key characteristic of an elopement is that it's a wedding conducted with minimal fanfare and without the usual trappings of a traditional ceremony or reception.

Ultimate guide in planning an elopement by Fiona Garrivan

Here’s an ultimate guide on planning your elopement:

  1. Choose a Location: Pick a meaningful or picturesque location that suits your style – whether it's a beach, mountain, cityscape, or a special place for both of you.

  2. Legal Requirements: Research the legalities of getting married in your chosen location. Ensure you have all necessary documents and permits.

  3. Photography/Videography: Decide if you want to hire a professional photographer or rely on friends/family. Capture the moments that matter to you.

  4. Attire: Select outfits that make you feel comfortable and reflect your personal style. Consider the weather and location when choosing your attire.

  5. Vows and Ceremony: Plan the ceremony details – whether it's traditional vows, personal promises, or an intimate symbolic gesture. Consider hiring a celebrant or having a close friend perform the ceremony.

  6. Guests (Optional): Decide if you want any guests present. Keep in mind that elopements are often more intimate with just the couple.

  7. Timeline: Plan a rough timeline for the day, including when you'll exchange vows, take photos, and any other special moments.

  8. Logistics: Arrange transportation, accommodation, and any other logistics for the day.

  9. Celebrate Afterwards: Whether it's a quiet dinner, a picnic, or a small reception, plan a way to celebrate your newlywed status after the ceremony.

  10. Communication: Inform close friends and family about your decision to elope. Share the news in a thoughtful way to avoid hurt feelings.

Remember, the key is to make it personal and meaningful to both of you. Enjoy the process and the special moments of your elopement!

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